‘Tempestuous relationship’
Police wrote in the affidavit that their investigation revealed the couple had a “tempestuous relationship” that began in November 2020.
There are multiple documented incidents of Clenney being physically violent with Obumseli, including Clenney’s arrest on a domestic battery charge in July 2021 in Las Vegas after she attacked him in a hotel room, the affidavit states.
Incidents of domestic violence began “almost immediately” after the couple moved to the Miami apartment in January, according to the affidavit.
At One Paraiso, there were so many documented incidents, including one case when tenants two floors above could hear Clenney and Obumseli arguing, that management was planning to take legal action to evict the couple, the affidavit states.
The Office of the State Attorney in Florida released a one-minute video Thursday of an incident between the couple in an elevator at One Paraiso in February.
Around 8:30 p.m. Feb. 21, Clenney is seen getting into the elevator and aggressively hits the touch-screen where residents select a floor. Obumseli gets in after her and motions for her to stop. Clenney is seen hitting Obumseli multiple times.
Obumseli pushes Clenney away and makes a selection on the screen. Clenney is seen pulling at his T-shirt, hair and repeatedly hitting him.
Obumseli holds up his arms to block Clenney as she continues to hit him. The two appear to be arguing, and Obumseli pushes Clenney away multiple times.
Obumseli exits the elevator and Clenney follows, still hitting Obumseli.
Police noted in the affidavit that the events were “certainly not one sided,” but did not elaborate.
The domestic disputes caused the couple to split up multiple times, most recently in March. Clenney and Obumseli rekindled their relationship April 1, and he moved back into the unit, according to the affidavit.
Clenney made a police report the same evening, and she “appeared intoxicated” when police responded, according to the affidavit.
Her attorney told the Miami Herald that she had been in Hawaii in a substance abuse rehabilitation program.
A ‘radiant personality’
Obumseli, who went by the nickname “Toby,” was born in Dallas and attended Plano East Senior High School.
He earned a football scholarship to Abilene Christian University and later transferred to Texas Tech University to study engineering, his obituary said.
In his obituary, Obumseli is described as a radiant personality and “a free spirit with larger than life dreams.”
“His fun-loving attitude allowed him to be comfortable in almost any atmosphere,” the obituary reads. “Toby was known for his caring and giving nature, which made people want to be around him as often as possible.”